AndromedaChained

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BDSM/Fetish PLAY LIST 

'''   Prepared by Jrsygir1(6/2000), this list was inspired by many existing lists on the internet....it was prepared and is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used for commercial gain.....please feel free to reproduce and distribute this document free of charge anywhere on the internet or in print. '''    This is a Play list that may help couples figure out what their wants and needs are. When someone fills it out they should indicate if they are filling it out for their ultimate Dominant/Top partner or for someone in particular, taking into consideration the nature of the relationship. In other words if I were filling it out for my longtime Dominant partner it would look different than if I were filling it out for a new casual play partner. Some of the answers would be different based on the nature of the relationship and the level of trust involved.

'''Please note; nothing in my opinion takes the place of chemistry and face to face communication. '''

How to fill out the forms; 

'''A. Done it YES or NO '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">B. Indicate how you felt about it when you did it using the following indicators; '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">NO <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"> means you will NOT do that activity under any circumstances. Its a hard limit and will never happen with anyone. PERIOD! THE END! DONT EVEN GO THERE! ''' <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">0 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means you HATE that activity, but you are willing to do it at least a little to please the Dominant/Top, but you would really rather not. It can also mean you are not able to do that activity with a casual play partner but in the right situation, like a committed relationship, you would be capable of doing it. And this is why communication will never take the place of a Play list. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">1 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means you don't care much about it....under the right circumstances it might be fun...what the hell...ok you will try it. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">2 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means you're curious about it, not sure how you'll respond...in theory you think you will like it.....but you  reserve the right to hate it. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">3 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means it's pleasurable or fun....and you hope the Dominant/Top can make it more fun. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">4     <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">     means you love it, you get hot thinking about it....and you really want to do it. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">5     <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">     means the activity is a wild turn-on, you want to do it more more more...all the time...AGAIN!!!

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">C. Indicate for each item how you feel RIGHT NOW about doing that activity with the person who asked you to fill this play list out, assuming there will be chemistry when you actually meet. '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">NO <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"> means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances. Its a hard limit and will never happen with anyone. PERIOD! THE END! DONT EVEN GO THERE! ''' <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">0 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means you HATE that activity, but you are willing to do it at least a little to please the Dominant. It can also mean you are not able to do that activity with a casual play partner but in the right situation, like a committed relationship, you would be capable of doing it. And this is why communication will never take the place of a Play list. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">1 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means you don't care much about it....under the right circumstances it might be fun...what the hell...ok you will try it. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">2 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means you're curious about it, not sure how you'll respond...in theory you think you will like it.....but you  reserve the right to hate it. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">3 <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">         means it's pleasurable or fun....and you hope the Dominant/Top can make it more fun. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">4     <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">     means you love it, you get hot thinking about it....and you really want to do it. <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">5     <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">     means the activity is a wild turn-on, you want to do it more more more...all the time...AGAIN!!!

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">D. Any comments you might have regarding the activity '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">I, AndromedaChained, am filling this play list out at the request of Tantraguy. '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">     

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">My experience in BDSM is best described as (Put an X after one); 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">None                 Some                 Casual  X            Serious                 Extensive 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">SEX 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Is sex something you want in your BDSM relationship (Y/N/maybe)? Maybe '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Define sex; I think that there is more to sex than penetration. '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Define Safe Sex; everything to do with using the appropriate things so we are always safe and have respect for each other. '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO) , HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                              A              B           C                                                          D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">BONDAGE 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Degree of immobility or helplessness enjoyed (circle one) Light                 Medium X                Heavy 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                             A              B           C                                                          D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">PUNISHMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Do you respond to punishment? Yes '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Under what circumstances is punishment not ok? Will have to discuss personally! '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

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<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                              A            B           C                                        D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ROLE PLAY 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                            A            B           C                                        D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">FETISH     

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">What items or types of play make the little man in your boat stand up and sing? '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                             A            B           C                                        D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">HUMILIATION & EXHIBITIONISM 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Is humiliation something you might get into? Some '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">What about being displayed in public? Some '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">What types of humiliation would be off limits? Something completely degrading for both parties '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                        A            B           C                                        D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">BODILY FUNCTIONS 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                              A            B           C                                        D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">INTENSE SENSATION AND IMPACT PLAY 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                             A            B           C                                        D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:17px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">OTHER STUFF 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, DONE IT (YES OR NO), HOW YOU FELT (NO OR 0 TO 5), WOULD LIKE TO DO IT (NO or 0 TO 5), COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">                                                                                              A            B           C                                        D 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">For you, the turn on of BDSM is:     (rate from 1 to 6 with 1 being most erotic): 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, VALUE, COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">What positions have the highest erotic value for you (rate from 1 to 6 with 1 being most erotic): 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">What toys have the highest erotic value for you (1=some interest; 2=pretty exciting; 3=very erotic) 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:9px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">ITEM, VALUE, COMMENT 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">How do you usually like it? (use all that apply) ''' (N) never, (T) thuddy, (S) stingy, (L) light, (M) medium, (H) heavy , (?) unsure

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">These activities interest me and why; 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Your biggest fantasy is; <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"> being kidnapped, tied out in the woods, blindfolded and my Dom leaving me and returning at what ever time he wants to do what ever pleases him or who ever is with him//Being teased all day, getting me to the point before orgasm, have a break of other fun things until bringing me to that point again and again. Not allowing me to until the next day// I want to be completely helpless!!!! '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Your favorite scene was; <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"> still need to find! '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Your worst scene was; 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">Your biggest fears are; <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"> needles, medical play 

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">What parts of your body are most erotically sensitive? <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"> Maybe you will find that out when we meet! '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">What parts of your Dom's body would you most like to pleasure? <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;"> ALL, what ever pleases him. '''

<p dir="ltr" style="line-height:1;margin-top:5pt;margin-bottom:5pt;">'''<span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">List any known limits for the specific play partner this questionnaire is being prepared for; <span style="font-size:16px;font-family:'Times New Roman';color:#000000;background-color:transparent;font-weight:normal;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre-wrap;">kneeling is difficult for me for a period of time, bad knees but I will still kneel for as long as I can. '''